The Choice April 13, 2009
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Ever have one of those days? You know what I meant – when nothing seems to go your way and everything you touch just falls apart before your very eyes.
Well, that’s the kind of day I had today. Sparing you the details, let me just say that I came home feeling quite dejected and more than a little sorry for myself. So I did what any wise diva would do… I called my two best girlfriends and lamented about my poor, pitiful life.
Being wise women themselves, they listened attentively and empathized without judgment. Then, they gave me what I really needed, what I knew I’d actually called for. After the whining subsided and the much deserved pity party neared its end, they each asked me, “So how long are you going to let yourself stay in this place?”
Their advice – advice that the three of us have passed back and forth amongst ourselves for many years – was to acknowledge and honor my feelings, and then to set a time limit for them. My task: do something positive and constructive and back into my groove.
So I weighed my options…
A) Put on my comfy pajamas and lay in bed while raiding my son’s Easter basket and watching re-runs of Charmed, or…
B) Put on my tennis shoes, grab my i-pod, take a long walk and get some fresh air and a new perspective on my problems.
Just as I was pulling my pajamas over my head, my husband walked in the front door. I went downstairs and, once again, recounted my sad story. By this time I was so tired of myself I could hardly stand it. So I ran back upstairs, put on my damned tennis shoes and opted for the walk.
For today at least, my higher self won out and I made the decision that got me closer to the person I want to be – the person I’m truly meant to be – instead of the person I’m outgrowing every day, with every positive action. It’s a small choice, I know, but one with far-reaching implications. I’m on my way!
Divianity January 19, 2008
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Today I’m filled with laughter and joy. This morning I took a much needed time out from my real life and joined two of my very best girlfriends – my Divas – for pedicures and lunch. The food and wine were great, but they paled in comparison to the company.
We laughed so hard that it physically hurt our guts. It was hysterical, heartwarming, empowering and a hell of a lot of fun. I love to spend time with these women for so many reasons, but the bottom line is this – they make my world a better place, one I really enjoy being in.
When we’re together we can do anything. We become an unstoppable force on a quest for joy and enlightenment. We share the greatest times, the most intimate secrets and most difficult challenges of our lives with one another.
We bear witness to the highs and lows of our collective experiences without judgment or regret. We honor, uplift and suport each other as we weave our talents together to empower ourselves and other women – body, mind and soul. This is our mission, our purpose and our faith. This is what we call Diviantiy.
Diva Wisdom January 17, 2008
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I was talking to the other Divas this morning about my desire to eliminate self-sabotaging thoughts and actions from my life. I was being very philosophical, analyzing my state of mind and body, and probably over-thinking the whole thing. Then my friend Barb said, “Just tell that bitch in your head to shut up.” Simple, profound, effective. Did I mention that Barb is brilliant.
Lately, I’ve been making a conscious effort to listen for the guidance of my higher self. But sometimes I’m just too distracted, too busy or too stressed out to hear that subtle voice. But I hear the other one – the bitch – loud and clear. So I’ve decided that when I just can’t seem to connect with the wisdom of my higher self, I’ll at the very least disconnect from my lower self.
Without the nagging self-doubt and insecurity of the bitch, or the soft voice of the soul distracting me all the time, I’m free to focus on my middle self – the one who loves great shoes and good wine.
My middle self has a wicked sense of humor. She’s full of wit and sarcasm, with just the slightest hint of bitterness that she hopes is more endearing than intimidating, but she’s not really sure and probably wouldn’t change regardless. She loves to dance and she’s a hell of a lot of fun. In fact, she’s fabulous.
I’ll still keep listening for that still voice inside, the one whispering in my ear and nudging me along my path, but in the meantime I’ll be in good company – my own.
Happy Birthday Sharon! January 15, 2008
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A birthday shout out to my Dancing Diva Shortiva. Your friendship inspires me to be a better person. I’m glad you were born. M.
Diva Interventions January 10, 2008
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One of my favorite things in the world is sharing a night, and a few glasses of wine, with good girlfriends. You know, the kind of woman you can say anything to without the fear of judgment.
These are the ladies you can exchange recipes or sex tips with (oh who are we kidding, we don’t really cook). The ones you laugh so hard with that your face actually hurts at the end of night.
Sometimes you just need your divas to help you get your jazz on. Thank the gods for the women in my life who remind me of who I am and who I am becoming – the ones who support and uplift me like a good bra.
Thank you ladies for inspiring me, pushing me beyond my comfort zone, and giving me a soft place to land when I come back down to the ground. I do love my divas!
